5 Quick Tips when planning a vacation with kids and grandparents

Stay Connected with Grandparents

Hi friends, first of all, thanks a lot for liking my last travel post. It is now the second most visited post on my blog with more than 10,000 visits in just a month. Thanks for all the love. Today I am here with yet another travel related post. And I am dedicating this post to the bond grandchildren shares with their grandparents all over the world.

We love to travel whenever we could, usually, we don’t plan much. We are in fact the last minute planners and finalize most of our vacations in less than a month’s time. Such unexpected travel plans are so much fun and thrilling. We just check out the lowest priced flights, book a decent hotel/resort, pack our bags and zoom we go. Thanks to various online travel companies like MakeMy Trip, GoIbibo, TripAdvisor, Trivago to name a few to do our last minute research, compare prices and steal some awesome deals. However, the last couple of trips were quite different. These were special as Nemit’s Nani & Dadi (grandmothers) were there with us on the vacation. We planned these vacations keeping in mind the comfort of our kid and his grandparents. I believe if there is anything you can gift to your kids and their grandparents, plan a trip together.

So, today I am going to share our best travel tips while traveling with kids and elderly to make the vacation comfortable and memorable for both.

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5 Best Tips when Traveling with Kids and their Grandparents

The definition of travel holds a completely different meaning when your travel partners are children and the big children (yes the elderly). You can’t just pick a destination and make last minute plans. So, last year we visited Kerela and this year January we traveled to the Andaman Islands with Nemit and his grandparents. And these 2 trips have taught us a lot more about how to make the vacation more fun and comfortable for both kid and his grandparents. Let’s look at some tips-

1. Start planning your trip at least 2-3 months prior to the actual date of travel.


Planning early not only gives you the freedom to book flights at a cheaper rate but you can select the best seats too. Involve the kids and grandparents while planning the destination, you will be amazed to hear their inputs. When you have lots of time on your hands before the vacation, you can invest more time in choosing the best resort for your stay. We make sure that the resort is kid-friendly and have comfortable cozy rooms. Also, make sure that you share all the details with your parents so that they too have enough time to make up their minds for the kind of holiday they are going to have. Trust me after 60, parents take their time to soak in details and get ready mentally. But once they are ready, nobody can stop them from having the fun.

2. Select a non-touristy place/location to get the best out of your vacation.

Select a non-touristy place for your vacation with grandparents

Now, this could get difficult to plan sometimes, but there are many famous destinations which have a part which remains untouched by tourists. We don’t like places which are always beaming with people all around. Vacation should have a motive, and if your aim is not to explore the whole place which is anyhow not possible with kids and elderly then make relaxation and rejuvenation your main priority. During our trip to Kerala, we chose places like Athirapilly, Munnar and Alleppey houseboat for our stay. Nemit and his grandmothers had an awesome time in the God’s own country.

3. Plan for relaxing trips without much of traveling as that is exhausting for both kids & elderly.

Plan for relaxing trips with grandparents

We all know how tiring it gets if we have to explore various locations and places during the trip. Plan the itinerary such that you include only 2-3 nearby locations which can be easily covered and everybody gets enough time to rest and relax. Usually, during our earlier trips, we would get ready around 9 am and leave the hotel to explore nearby places and would come back only around late evening. Don’t ever plan such itineraries when you have kids and their grandparents along. This will only leave them exhausted and irritated. Gift them a relaxing holiday.

4. If possible book a resort which has connecting rooms so that you can be together all the time.

Book connecting room or villas in a resort

You will thank me later for this tip. If you can find such resorts which have villas with 2 rooms or connecting rooms, nothing could be better than this. If somehow you are unable to get connecting rooms, do check with the resort management for adjacent rooms or cottages whichever you prefer. It will feel just like home.

5. Lastly, plan activities which are easy and can be enjoyed together.

Plan activities which can be enjoyed by all

With this I mean the activities you wish to do on your vacation, be it fun, adventure or just lazying around. You can’t tell your parents to try paragliding or river rafting neither your young kids can enjoy these. However, everyone can enjoy boat rides in place of river rafting and peaceful small walks in place of long trekking. Don’t shy away from asking your parents about their wishlist. I am sure they will share their own ideas of how they wish to enjoy the holiday. One last point, deep inside we feel happy that we will have someone who will take care of kids along with us on the holiday but doesn’t take that for granted. Let them make memories with their kids and grandkids and cherish them forever.

We made some best memories during our last vacations. And one of the best ways for kids to stay connected with grandparents is to travel together.

This post is part of the blog train which is initiated by a lovely mom Pooja Kawatra of  The Mums and Babies. I want to thank Upasana Goswami who blogs at M & M for introducing me as the next blogger.

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    Niharika Roychoudhury March 23, 2018 at 7:18 pm - Reply

    I recently experienced traveling with my toddler and in laws…And I am with you on this 100% with family you have plan early…

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    Manvi March 23, 2018 at 10:14 pm - Reply

    Amazing post..A big smile on my face while reading this…Nani & Dadi look like sisters…Great helpful tips?

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    Meiling Wong-Chainani March 24, 2018 at 1:25 pm - Reply

    It can be challenging traveling with both young kids and the elderly. But I also think it builds so many good memories for both generations. Great post and tips for those planning a trip with 3 generations.

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    Sonam March 24, 2018 at 2:31 pm - Reply

    So true.. thanks for sharing these lovely tips

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    Pooja K March 27, 2018 at 11:53 am - Reply

    ACtually, we keep it free and easy when travelling with kids and grandparents. What we did was to book a villa kind with few rooms and it was super fun.

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    Rashni March 27, 2018 at 2:06 pm - Reply

    Connecting rooms or villas is a great option when you travel with extended families or friends.. gives you home like environment too and makes the kids and elders feel secured. Really appreciate your ideas on traveling with grand parents.

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    Nandita March 27, 2018 at 2:51 pm - Reply

    We recently planned the whole family trip with elders and kids in our family and I couldn’t agree more with the points stated

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    Anisha Agrawal March 31, 2018 at 11:15 pm - Reply

    Bookmarking this fr sure, we are yet to travel with K’s grandparents.. will be really helpful

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    Amitoj Kaur April 2, 2018 at 1:15 am - Reply

    Lovely idea of travelling with your parents and kids.. Thanks for sharing the tips too to make the travel easier…

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    latika October 24, 2018 at 12:53 pm - Reply

    Your tips are very helpful next month m traveling to Mumbai and bit scared how m going to manage my both kids in flight

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    Nia Nal May 1, 2020 at 10:49 pm - Reply

    I have been going through your blog for quite a while now and i seriously love the updates you give. I never would have mentioned but i just wanted to let you know. Leaving the comment on your blog post will let other see it and know the work you are doing.

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      Neha Sharma May 5, 2020 at 5:23 pm - Reply

      That’s so sweet of you, thank you so much for your kind words.

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